Kindness is defined as; the act or state of being kind and marked by charitable behaviour, marked by mild disposition, pleasantness, tenderness and concern for others.
What is considered "an act of kindness?" Anything that's done for others (human or animal) without expecting to get anything in return. Even if the end result is mixed with feelings of anger or hatred from the "other" party. The "act" itself may be a "simple smile hello!"... on a grander scale it may mean giving up life as you've known it. This occurs when you allow "others" to live in your home. No matter the situation, we are all called to "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." This is known as the golden rule! But, notice the word kindness is never mentioned... kindness is suppose to be known; expected.
We are called to love and be kind to ALL... (Luke 6:35) says; "But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back." Constant kindness can accomplish much; As the sun causes ice to melt, Kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.
Kindness calls for forgiveness... (Eph. 4:32) states; "Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you." Forgiveness is the ultimate "act of kindness" that you give first to yourself, then to another person.
Kindness is gentle... "A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare" (Pro. 15:1) Before you respond in anger... take a moment to respond in kindness with a gentle soft word.
(Romans 12:9-10) says; "Don't just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection, (with brotherly love) and take delight in honoring each other." Emphasis of hate is on the "what" not the "Who"... no matter the wrong! Let us all be given the opportunity to learn from our mistakes.
The ultimate benefit of kindness is love... as it relates to one and all; refer to 1 Cor. 13:4-7.
Kindly Yours,
JKEST-Vicki
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