Monday, September 20, 2010

Producing the "Fruits of the Spirit" *Willingly* Part 1

"But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace..." (Gal. 5:22)

My focus for the next 3 blogs {Lord Willing} will be X-actly that... the word Willing! In regards to Marriage Matters {#12}... what are you willing to do for your mate?! In regards to all of man-kind... are you willing to exhibit the "Fruits of the Spirit?" There is no way to properly cover all 9 in one blog; so I will break it up into a 3-part series! In regards to Christ Himself are you willing to allow HiM to produce the fruits in you? I do have 9 past archived blogs covering each fruit; this series will focus on a different aspect!

We will begin with Love: Love is 1st... as it should be! (1Cor. 13:1) states "Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal." In other words if were not speaking out of and in love... were just making a bunch of noise and not being heard! We are to "serve one another in love." (Gal. 5:13b) Again, the key word being willing! This means whatever the Lord wills... to whom He wills! Including our worst enemy! So, that much more we should willingly serve those we actually say we Love! Are you willing to go out of your way... to willingly give of yourself!? Would you give up your own plans, having your own way, etc. for Love?! What can you do to show Love, to Be Love? Willingly Serve. That simple. It has to do with nourishment; physical affection, satisfying those tummies, spiritual refreshment, meeting emotional needs; just to name a few! For all of us our needs and desires will vary... but one constant is we all need Love! Whatever you do keep in mind "this one commandment:"Love your neighbor as yourself." (Gal. 5:14b)

Joy! Gotta love that others centered word! Keeping Jesus 1st... He truly exhibited Joy in all circumstances! If He is 1st and foremost center of our lives... how can we not be Joyful in all things!? We do this through prayer, Bible reading, devotions, church & Bible studies!
Others... those fellow human-beings in your life! "Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interest of others." (Phil. 2:4) Also (Gal. 5:15) says, "But if you are always biting and devouring one another, watch out! Beware of destroying one another." Oh! How our words and actions can destroy and devour! We are powerful and mighty creatures... we can build-up or tear-down (with our words, attitude & actions)
YoU! are Loved... You are Special... You are wanted... You are needed... You are desired... You are cherished... You are adored... I AM a Chosen Child... Daughter of the King!!! (I Hope You are, too!) I say these things because it's something we all need to hear... some of us never hear it; or often enough! Be the one to let others hear these words today!! {Don't forget Jesus... Loves to hear these words, too!!!}

Peace! The best advice regarding peace comes from the Bible. "The wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield." (James 3:17) Do not treat your mate or others as your enemy, instead give them honor by showing respect for what they have to say! Try to go their way more of the time! Compromise... give in! After all... look what Love {Jesus} did for you... on the cross!!! HE came to seek & save the lost... that they might have life! Glory Be!

HiS Child,
*JKEST*-Vicki

Monday, August 30, 2010

*Seek, Find, Knock..."

"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you." (Matthew 7:7)

So, it is Monday which normally means "Marriage Matters" Blog... well I wasn't "feeling" it today! But, the Lord had other plans! Alas a Blog is meant to be produced for today; just not specifically on Marriage!

Lord knows the last week has been "tough"... Spiritually, Emotionally etc. He knows circumstances! Just starting to come out of the specific "funk;" turning to HiM... "Duty" called! After having maybe 3 hours sleep... I was exhausted! Hubby graciously got kids up and off to school before heading into work. I slowly attempted to begin my day! Keziah happily played in my Bedroom; I made quick use of the restroom (5 min.) Bored Keziah= Lock & Closed Mommy's DooR! Upon exiting R/R I "Seek to Find the scenario!" She's "Knocking" to get out! Bawling, Screaming, Crying Hysterically! Of course Prayer ensued... Lord "You got a Problem!" Fortunately lil SiS was on the way to watch kids after school. Sweet P. began to reach out her little hand from under the door (My touch soothed her) then it was a foot! The house key SiS had wasn't the right one for the "Back Door." Option #2: Thanks to Elijah we had multiple screw drivers in a drawer. Window with A/C in it has plexi-glass, so sis was able to just reach to remove most screws from top part of window! PTL!!! She crawled in and after an hour Sweet P. was Out!

I thought of the many who are "Locked" in their own "Rooms" called "Life." They feel "Trapped," just want out... like my lil girl! They whine and scream and cry! They shake the handle, bang on "The Door..." wondering if anyone hears them; if Somebody Cares?! In Revelation 3:20 Jesus states, " Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me."
He does have a few expectations for those wanting a relationship with HiM! "For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened." (Matt. 7:8) It's that simple!

I know without HiM I would not have been able to have "Safely" gotten my daughter out... Lord knows! He "Knew" just what was needed, even before I did! HiS timing is "Perfection!" I could of been stuck with a 22-month old locked in a room with all the keys & my purse. I was wearing less than appropriate leave the house attire; and 3 kids waiting to be picked up from school! He knows our needs even when we don't! He even helped "repair" some of my "Hurts" from the previous week, HE knows details! If you need to know, Ask HiM!! :) Now, I know why my Fave & Life verse is & Always will be, "For I can do ALL things through Christ, who strengthens Me!!" (Phil. 4:13)

He's Patiently Waiting for many to "Open the Door to HiM!" Are You One of them?!

IMpatiently Awaiting HiS Return,
HiS Daughter,
*JKEST*

Monday, August 16, 2010

"Marriage Matters" #11: Part 2 Love Cherishes & Nourishes

"He who loves his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it." (Ephesians 5:28-29)

(The Message Bible proclaims) "Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church- a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ's love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk- radiant with holiness. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They're really doing themselves a favor- since they're already "one" in marriage.
No one abuses his own body, does he? No, he feeds and pampers it. That's how Christ treats us, the church, since we are part of his body. And this is why a man leaves father and mother and cherishes his wife. No longer two, they become "one flesh." This is a huge mystery, and I don't pretend to understand it all. What is clearest to me is the way Christ treats the church. And this provides a good picture of how each husband is to treat his wife, loving himself in loving her, and how each wife is to honor her husband." (Ephesians 5:28-31)

What an Awesome picture of perfection I thought this was! But, of course none of us are perfect; alas this just gives us something to strive towards! We can give of ourselves without expecting "something" in return. This includes our time, energies, $money$. We all tend to "Spend our Time & $Money$ on whom or what we love! This says a great deal about a person... How is your "energy" spent throughout the day?! Are you lacking it when it comes time to "give" to your mate?! What can you do to improve on this area?!
Are you "one" with your mate in everyday routine decisions?! How about major decisions?! Purchases, where you go on vacation... do you have one at all!? Even simple choices like what to have or where to go for dinner! Whatever doesn't unite you; can divide you! No matter how trivial at the time the matter seems!
Do you bring out the "Best" or the "worst" in your mate? Only you as the spouse can know the answers... Strive to fully bring out the "Best Yet;" yet keep the "worst" hidden away! Remember, this is greatly to your advantage! You will truly feel Better & your spouse will be a "better" person as the result!
Feed, nourish & Pamper each other... this will be different for us all! "Feed" on the Word together and separately. "Feed" each others "Needs"... again this will be different for each person! The one constant is we all have needs! If you don't know or understand each other's needs; find them out!
Finally, pamper each other! Some of us tend to "Pamper" ourselves, our kids, pets, even cars... but what about your spouse?! I will allow you your own definition... but it doesn't just involve $Money$ especially in these hard times!!

*Love Dare* Do something this week that shows your spouse you are "one" with them! Ask them what their needs are and work on fulfilling as many of them as you can!

Recommitting to Love, Honor & Cherish MY Beloved!!!
JKEST-Vicki

Monday, August 9, 2010

"Marriage Matters" #11: Love Cherishes ALLways!!!

"Husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies." (Eph. 5:28)

The Day you got married you said & made vows to your spouse. Did your vows include to Love, Honor & CHERISH...?! What does it mean to cherish another person? In terms of materially speaking I ask Husbands: Would you say your Wife is more like a $30 Million Bugatti (yes this car exists!) or a brand-new $10,000 Hyundai? Now, let me rephrase it. Do you treat your wife or does she feel treated like the Bugatti or the Hyundai? Wives does your husband feel he's treated like a $100 Million estate or a $50,000 fixer upper? (They both do exist; I know full well) Would you literally give all you have for your mate? Do they feel you treat them this way? (Matthew 13:46) states "When he discovered a pearl of great value, he sold everything he owned and bought it!" Is your mate, your marriage not worth as much?!
The way we treat our mates determines their value. How we value them determines the cost of our marriage. How much is your marriage worth? Can your mate honestly say they feel their worth the $$Millions$$ to you... or would they say they feel like their just a "fixer upper" in your eyes?! If they can't say they feel highly valued and treasured by you... something needs to change and it's not them! Our marriages count for eternity! It's time to raise the Value on your marriage!
In the end, Our Faithful Father will be the one to say, "Well done Son/daughter, you treated my Daughter/ son well!" Do you want to have to explain to the Creator of the Universe why you treated HiS child wrong or badly? What will your response be? Will you have to say you were selfish, too tired, lazy, it wasn't worth it, I just gave up!? Will you say "I wasn't treated like a Queen/King so I treated them the same way!"

If your marriage is in need of a tune-up don't neglect doing it! Just as cars & homes take Time, $Money$, attention to detail, expertise and investment of energy. Many of the same things will be required in restoring, revamping, refreshing, rekindling, reconnecting, rebuilding, refurbishing, reigniting, resolving, and Remember when you do you will be reValuing your mate & Marriage to their highest Worth!
The "other" option is Devalue which is what happens if you Deny, Deprive, Desolve, and Destroy your Marriage! This will lead to divorce, which is the Death of your marriage & the aftermath that follows!

I just realized what I had originally planned to go with this blog... is much too long! So, this will be my 1st to be continued... C-U next Monday! *JKEST*

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

"Marriage Matters" #10: Love is Unconditional

"God demonstrates HiS own love towards us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8)

If you were asked, "Why do you love your husband or wife?"-what would you say? Many men would probably mention their wife's beauty, her understanding, compassion, kindness. They might talk about her cooking, her sense of style or creativeness, or what a good mother she is. Many women would probably mention their husband's good looks or his charming personality. They'd say how faithful he is. How consistent and honest he is. They'd say they love him because he's always there for them, he's generous and helpful.
What happens then after the years go by and they stop being these things? Do you still love them? Logic would say no... unconditional love says Yes! Love can last a life-time only if it's unconditional! This type of love is called Agape love!

Agape love is always unconditionally giving and impossible to take or be a taker. It devotes total commitment to seek your highest best no matter how someone may respond. This form of love is totally selfless and does not change whether the love given is returned or not.
(Christian theology) states it is the love of God or Christ for mankind- Classical Greek; also Charity.
It is one of the 3 basic virtues, along with Faith and Hope. Saint Paul called it the greatest of these. The Bible says, "This is real love- not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent HiS Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins." (1 John 4:10) The essence of Agape love is self-sacrifice. It's Supernatural God anointed love! "We love, because He first loved us." (1 John 4:19)
Agape love is the true opposite of sin. In a world of self indulgence and greed, a Christian that lives the life of Love is a real true contrast. The three other forms of love are Eros, Philia, and Storge.

Eros: is an "erotic feeling" self-beneficial... what they can do for you. Eros is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing; intimate but does not have to be sexual in nature. More than friendship. Dating as well as marriage. Appreciation of their natural beauty that comes from within. Naturally Platonic means simply- "without physical attraction." So relationships built on initial physical attraction would not have this level of love. Unless you allow God to grow HiS love within you; you will struggle and possibly fail in your marriage and other relationships. Love that "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things" (1 Cor. 13:7) does not come from within. It can only come from HiM!

Philia: means Friendship in modern Greek. It is a dispassionate virtuous love, concept developed by Aristotle. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community and requires virtue, equality, and familiarity. (Prov. 17:17) states "A Friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity." It stems from a desire or enjoyment of an activity, as well as between lovers.

Storge: means "affection" in ancient and modern Greek. It is a natural affection, like that felt by parents for offspring. Exclusively used to describe relationships within the family. It is also known for expressing mere acceptance or putting up with situations, as in "loving" the tyrant. Loving the "unlovable." The Scriptures say that "neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38-39) God Loves us that much!

Thankfully God allows us the choice to choose HiS kind of love. But you must first receive it; before you can share it! What kind of love is your relationship with your mate based on? Is it the same foundation you based it on when you first got together? If it's not currently based on the foundation of Agape Love, it's not too late! Take the steps you need to in order to make your marriage relationship "Rock Solid!" Then instead of saying "I love you because..." You will firmly and passionately be able to say, "I LOVE YOU, PERIOD!"

***Love Dare*** Do something for your spouse that you never or rarely do. Something that you must freely choose to do. Choosing to do this on your own, will help prove your love is based on your choice and nothing else. Wash the car. Clean the kitchen. Buy or make their fave dessert. Fold the laundry. Whatever it takes to show the sheer joy you have for them because they are your partner in marriage-for a Lifetime! Continue showing the Love even if it's not returned!

Love,
JKEST-Vicki

"He who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him." (Psalm 32:10)

Monday, July 12, 2010

"Marriage Matters" Mon. #9 {Love makes good impressions} (Greetings)

"Greet one another with a kiss of love." (1 Peter 5:14)

We've all been there, I'm sure... Someone says "Hi! and your name... you know you know them but either completely forgot there name or falsely recognize them (momentarily)... do you just say Hi! back and smile or do you guess?! Maybe have them "help" you out... is it...?! And "Hope" your right?! At least you shouldn't forget, again! Scenario #2... Again you see someone you recognize... a ways in front of you. There smiling and waving... at YOU! So, you smile and wave back... hopefully you didn't say Hi!... cause as it turns out they were waving at "their" Friend who happened to be; Right behind YOU! It's probably happened to the Best of us!

How do you "greet" your spouse or (Other) loved ones?! Do we falsely believe they don't need to be "Greeted" properly? What happens when we have "wronged" them... do we walk around with our tail between our legs? We may feel we don't "deserve" to receive a simple kiss... this can only cause tension in our marriage. We need to come to our senses as quickly as possible... for restoration to begin. Let's see what the Bible has to say...

I will paraphrase "The Parable of the Lost Son" (Luke 15:11-32)
... after wasting away his inheritance... he came to his senses, and decided to go home to his father. He had even planned what to say'... & Please take me on as a hired servant.'
So he returned home to his father. And while he was a still along way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him. His son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against both heaven and you, and I am no longer worthy of being called your son.'
His father sent servants to bring the finest robe, ring, and sandals for him. Never mentioning the son's desire to become a hired servant. The fatted calf was prepared- a celebration feast for the son who was dead and has now returned to life. He, was lost, but now he is found. So the party began.
The Other son was angry... His father said to him, 'Look dear son, you have always stayed by me, and everything I have is yours.' We had to celebrate this happy day. For your brother was dead and has come back to life. He was lost but now is found.
Our Heavenly Father wants to do the same thing for us if we let him. Keep this in mind as an example as to how we are to treat & Greet our mates and Loved ones... no matter what! Sometimes we may feel slighted, they barely deserve a Hi! today... look to Jesus... my Friend look to HiM!

Make each Greeting count! Make your Beloved see, feel and hear the Love, Peace and Joy you have for them.Think of the different opportunities we have to greet each other daily. Upon awakening, before leaving for work etc, and coming home. Meeting for lunch etc. Saying good-nite & talking on the phone. Try to convey warmth and enthusiasm to your mate. Find new and exciting ways to subtly touch the heart of your mate through spoken or unspoken interaction. Make every attempt at making your Beloved feel valued, loved, and appreciated. Especially when your not getting along so well; you may just be able to lessen some of the tension. Remember, love is a choice. So, choose to choose a greeting that reflects your love for them! That's your "Love Dare" for this Blog...:)

"And that's about it, friends, Be cheerful. Keep things in good repair. Keep your Spirits up. Think in harmony. Be agreeable. Do all that, and the God of love and peace will be with you for sure. Greet one another with a holy embrace. All the brothers and sisters here say hello." (2 Corinthians 3:11) {The Message Bible}

Joyfully Yours,
JKEST-Vicki
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Monday, July 5, 2010

*JKEST From:The Heart Special* (in place of Marriage Matters)

"For I know the plans I have for you, "declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)

*Who Are You!?*
You can not know Where your going til you know Who you are. If you don't know How you got there you can not know What you'll become... When He calls you to become the person you were meant to be. God Created You for HiS Purpose-on Purpose!!!

"Seasons"
Jesus leads me on the narrow way; without HiM I should fall. Thank you Jesus for picking me back up and putting me on the path. When I stray you come to my rescue. You pay the bill in full for me; you are my free ride home.
You are my Rock and my Refuge. When I stand in your shadow you shield me. You are my SoN and my shield. You warm me and protect me. "The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation my stronghold." (Psalm 18:2)

You are the tree of life. I am firmly rooted and grounded in you. Your leaves change with the season... just as you give friendships which come and go... some stay in our hearts and remain. Others show up in another time and season. You allow this to grow us stronger in you... you love us so much! We change, you remain the same. You are that tree standing tall firmly rooted and grounded. The more we cling to you the stronger we are. You know and see how strong and how long our roots are; which are connected to you. Your Word is the rich soil which feeds and nourishes the soul. We take in and drink of your Living water... and never thirst again. You quench me with your love Oh Lord. You are as gentle as the still waters of the streams. "Anyone who believes in me may come and drink! For the Scriptures declare, 'Rivers of living water will flow from his heart.'" (John 7:38)

I cling to your robe. Lord you are Higher, you are more mighty than any mountain. You made the mountains, the Rocks, the seas. Man has never made or ever will create anything as lovely as worthy as thee. You are my strong tower... My power. You are so mighty... mighty to save; even when they resist.
Lord give me Rest. Give me Peace. Be my Rest- Be my Piece... The missing Peace. Fill the empty Pieces of my life... however you see fit. Help me not to fear the falling, changing leaves of this season you've put me in! PTL!!!

*** Hope you Enjoy this song By: my Fav. singer***
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jg2jio6cVxo

Changing 4-HiM!!!
JKEST-Vicki









Friday, July 2, 2010

"Fruit Filled Fri." #9: Self-Control

"to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness" (2 Peter 1:6)

Def- Self-Control: control of one's emotions, desires, or actions by one's own will.

To stand any chance of gaining self-control we need to be completely clear about Why we Want to change. What is embarrassing, upsetting or irritating for me or for the important "Others;" God has placed in our life?! HE gives us "Our Own Free Choice or Will"... We need to be especially on guard at the times when we are most at risk of relapsing into our old habits and ways! The best defense is to memorize (John 10:10) "The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly."
*You must admit you have self-control before you can use it.* (Carrie Latet)
*What makes resisting temptation difficult for many people is they don't want to discourage it completely.* (Franklin P. Jones) "And Jesus answered and said to him, "Get behind Me, Satan! For it is written, 'You shall worship the LORD your God and Him only you shall serve.'" (Luke 4:8)

A lot of kids tend to be unruly nowadays! And out of control children normally lead parents to feel and become out of control themselves, too! Eventually, everyone ends up being uncontrollable all together. Atlas, it is your Job as the parent (adult) to remain in control... no matter what! How can one train a child to exercise such self-control? This is done by developing something on the inside that becomes more attractive than that which is on the outside. Then more pleasure is gotten inwardly by resistance than outwardly by yielding. (Pastor Jack Hyles)
"Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it." (Proverbs 22:6)

Praying We All Learn God-Control,
JKEST-Vicki

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

*** "Do you want to be made well?" *** (John 5:6)

"I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life." (John 8:12)

Gentle "Keeper"
The Lord is such a "Gentleman"... He slowly; gently lifts us from our "sleep." For many He knows time is of the essence. Some are in a dream state. Others have yet to forget their nightmare left behind; there in that dark hell. The Lord well knows their pain and shame hidden deep down in that pitted well. The Lord is gentle... He is kind and will allow them more time. For He is the Keeper! He holds Time in HiS Great & Gentle Hands!! He holds each tear... knows when it falls and He always Hears us when (WE) His Dear Child calls out from our "sleep!"

"He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love."
***Enjoy this "Mighty" message courtesy of Hillsong
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-08YZF87OBQ

Rescued-2-Save
JKEST-Vicki


Monday, June 28, 2010

"Marriage Matters" Monday #8: Love is not Jealous

"Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep." (Romans 12:15)

Jealousy such a controversial word. The world may say, "Your just jealous of me!" Why are we not appalled! It seems to be an accepted phrase in society. Why is it OK to "try and make" someone jealous!? I believe this may be the rift cause of ruin in many marriages and other relationships. The Bible is clear on it's stance of jealousy.

Jealousy is a driving force; an intense emotion. It derives from the root word for zeal; it means "to burn with an intense fire." (Prov. 27:4) states "Wrath is fierce and anger is a flood, but who can stand before jealousy."

There are actually 2 very different forms of jealousy: Legitimate jealousy is based upon Love. Illegitimate jealousy is based on envy. If you love someone you want what's best for them. It is never appropriate to purposely cause another person to feel jealous. Keep this in mind... open communication is key!

With the new era of many electronic forms of communication there are many ways too create jealousy. Determine if whoever you communicate with is helping your relationship or driving a wedge!?
It is essential you both have positive outlets; but keep balance and communicate openly with each other. If one of you feels jealousy for any reason, it is important to discuss why your feeling how you do right away. If not these "feelings" can soon turn toxic to yourself and your relationship.

Do you appreciate and enjoy the "successes" of your spouse!? Do you bask in the "glow" or cast a "shadow" over them? Do you have feelings of being "unsuccessful" right now? If so where are those feelings coming from? It could be a "form" of jealousy. You may feel others have a "better" job or "house"; or that their kids behave far more better than yours. That is what happens when were not content with what we have. The envy monster has been allowed to creep in; and you never even realized it! So when is jealousy an OK feeling to have...

The Bible clearly tells us "the Lord your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God" (Deuteronomy 4:24) He is not jealous "of us"... as in envy. He has no reason to want what we have, since He owns it all including... "the cattle on a thousand hills" (Psalm 50:10) It's just that He deeply "longs" for us, He wants us to keep him #1 in our life as our 1st love. He doesn't want us to let anything into our hearts such as (jealous envy) to corrupt us. He doesn't want us to worship any other "gods"... meaning people, things, thoughts. Anything that consumes us, takes our time and attention away from HiM! He wants us to have a healthy relationship with our spouse.

Let love, humility and gratefulness destroy any envious jealous feelings in your heart. Praise your mates successes; allowing them to draw you nearer to each other. Become your spouse's #1 Biggest Fan! Reject any thoughts of jealousy. Begin to turn your heart toward your spouse. Focus on them and their achievements.

*** Love Dare*** If you did previous Dare #7 you will have 2 lists of positive and negative attributes of your mate. Now is the time to destroy the negative list... Burn it or ? Whatever way you can to completely destroy it. Then share how glad you are about a recent success or positive attribute about your mate.
*Encourage your mate to go forward toward future successes. No success is too small when achieved for HiS Kingdom!!!

"Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire." (Song of Solomon 8:6)

For HiS Kingdom,
JKEST-Vicki

Friday, June 25, 2010

Fruit-filled Fri. #8: Gentleness (Gal. 5:23)

"And be kind to one another, tenderhearted {compassionate; gentle} forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32)

Def. gentleness- kindly, not severe, rough or violent; mild
Synonyms: peaceful: soothing; tender, humane, lenient, merciful. Gentle,meek, mild... refer to an absence of bad temper or belligerence.
Gentle has reference esp. to disposition and behaviour, and often suggests a deliberate or voluntary kindness or forbearance in dealing with others.
Meek implies a submissive spirit, and may even indicate undue submission in the face of insult or injustice.
Mild suggests absence of harshness or severity, rather because of natural character or temperament than conscious choice.
Antonyms: harsh, cruel; violent, sudden; wild, unruly

Being gentle is part of God's character and this virtue is highly treasured by God; as (1 Peter 3:4) states "the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit... is of great worth and so precious in God's sight." Jesus is the epitome of gentleness!

Gens- (beginning of gentle) means belonging together by birth
Other words that begin with Gen. happen to be... Genesis- book of beginnings, generations, genealogy; think of good birth or family; respectable; also genetic and genes. All meaning root or beginning of. Essentially, we can all lay claim to be from the same "genetic" background; if you claim God as your gentle Father! Gentlemen and Gentlewomen reflect their Godly source. May it be true of us all. May we be as sweet as the water of the well from which we spring.

Nothing is so strong as gentleness, Nothing so gentle as strength... under control! If you could put it in a bottle and sell it you'd make a fortune. Gentleness is a virtue, a gift we give to each other. How then are we to live (2 Timothy 2:24) states "A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone; be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people."

Jesus himself lays out a perfect example of gentleness in (John 8:1-11) I encourage you to read it for yourself! I will simply summarize. A Woman caught in Adultery... the law stated she be stoned; really she was used as a trap for Jesus... Jesus was gentleness to a T... while ignoring accusers he wrote in the dust with his finger. When he finally spoke... "All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone." (conviction took over) as they left one by one. Jesus was left standing with the woman. "Where are your accusers? Didn't even one of them condemn you?" "Neither do I. Go and sin no more." We are called to be "Jesus like." We are to deal with our accusers and sinners... in the same way!

"Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near; {and coming soon"} (Philippians 4:5)

JKEST Blessings,
Vicki








Friday, June 18, 2010

Fruit Filled Fri. #7: Faithfulness (Gal. 5:22)

"Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good! His faithful love endures forever. Give thanks to the God of gods. His faithful love endures forever." (Psalm 136:1-2)

I found it to be rather fitting to be blogging about faithfulness... 2 days before Father's Day!! One thing is certain... we ALL have a father... we also have his blood (scientific fact). How much he's in involved in our upbringing is another matter. No matter your feelings toward your earthly father; whether he's faithfully in your life or not. We all have "One Faithful Father"... He is Our Heavenly Father... to those who accept and chose to have a relationship with HiM!!!

As with all of the fruits of the Spirit, God Himself is the model we must study for examples of faithfulness to encourage us to trust and to emulate Him. The faithfulness of God is a familiar phrase to those of a religious mind, but its depth and scope are probably not as familiar.

Faith is an often used word in our everyday language. We say "I have faith in you"... Meaning I believe in you; that you can do it. But, is it the person you should believe in or the God who created them?! Is it not He who allows the person to complete or accomplish the task given?! Obviously we are not responsible for our own existence. Our parents had to have some "faith" in regards to our conception. In other words we are all created by the same "act" of our parents coming together! We are all carried in our mother's womb for approx. the same amount of time. We all enter into the world only one of two ways. This all takes "Faith" for the many parties involved.

We ultimately all come from one Father... yet many choose not to acknowledge HiM! Instead choosing to place their faith in themselves. They believe they can make it in this life "on their own." Yes, clearly it is our own choice. (Joshua 24:15) states, "Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve,... But as for me and my (family), we will serve the Lord." Some put faith in their jobs, $MoneY$, HomeS, Spouse, and even children. The Bible clearly states, "For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out." (1 Tim. 6:7)
God's faithfulness is proclaimed throughout the entire book of Psalm. Just one example is Psalm Ch. 117 "Praise, the Lord, all you nations, extol him, all you peoples. For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the Lord endures forever...

Many times in life, we may want to turn away from God instead of turning toward Him. No matter what, "He is faithful even when were not"... He remains the same... never changing. We move away from Him. He stays right there waiting for us to come back to Him.

Faithfulness is part of the marriage contract. So also with God. Faithfulness is not an option we choose. God expects us to be faithful to Him, and He seeks men and women who will live so as to consistently carry out His will. When we are too weak to have any faith left, He remains faithful to us. His Faithfulness is Ceaseless.

Faithfully Yours,
JKEST-Vicki

"Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassion's never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." (Lamentations 3:22-23)
Enjoy this hymn from Selah!!
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Monday, June 14, 2010

"Marriage Matters Mon." #7: Love believes & Appreciates the Best!

[Love] believes all things, hopes all things. (1Corinthians 13:7)



In accounting, Appreciation of an asset is an increase in its value. So to appreciate a human being is to make them more valuable as a person. They will feel more valued and become more valuable in your own eyes. Depreciation has the reverse effect, it measures the fall in value of assets over their normal life-time.

Just as driving a car off the car lot immediately causes depreciation to begin... the same thing can happen in marriages and other "close" relationships. This is often a sad reality! It can affect not just married couples, but also children and their parents or even sibling relationships. Many times we don't put the effort into said relationships as we once did. The appreciation for each other has grown to a depreciation in terms of value. What may once have been a golden cherished relationship has been allowed to tarnish and rust away. Suddenly, we no longer keep in touch! We may have allowed "good memories" to become clouded by one or two bad memories or feelings. Unforgiveness on the part of either or perhaps both parties can usually be seen as a long contributing factor. Oh! we think we've forgiven... and moved on. But, do our actions show it?! We say "were so busy lately." Remember, time is of the essence. Our lives are are but a vapor! Our "times" are in HiS Hands. We know not the number of our days.

Family is not something we choose. But, we do choose what role we play as a member of each of our families. Will you be the one to choose to Build the Appreciation and Value of each member within your family... or will you allow depreciation to Rust away potentially lasting memories and connections?!



**Love Dare** (not just for marrieds)

This week, get two sheets of paper. On the first one, write out as many positive things about your spouse. (or Other person; whom you want to appreciate) Then do the same, writing out negative things on the second sheet. Place both sheets away in a secret place for the next marriage blog... (Lord willing next Mon.) There is a different purpose and plan for each. At some point during the remainder of the week, pick a positive attribute from the first list and thank your spouse (or Other) for having this characteristic!

* Which list was easier to make? What did this reveal about your thoughts toward this person? What attribute will you thank your spouse (Other) for having? You can DO It... HE Can Help!!!



"If there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things." (Philippians 4:8)



Your Truelly,
JKEST-Vicki!!!!!

Friday, June 11, 2010

Fruit Filled Fri. #6: Goodness

For the fruit (the effect, the product) of the Light or the Spirit [consists] in every form of kindly goodness, uprightness of heart, and trueness of life. (Ephesians 5:9)

The simple word "good" is very widely used in our culture... but do we realize what we are saying when we say "Good morning, day, night, bye" etc. Were saying to sometimes perfect strangers may "good" things happen to you... or are we telling them to exhibit "good" behaviour?! When did it become a term of wide use?! I guess my point is the essence of "goodness" must be cultivated. A seed planted- a new life begun...

No one would ever look into a newborns eyes and see "badness"... So how do they then turn into "terrible toddlers?" Funny how we don't have to teach what is considered "bad" behaviour... but we must teach what is "good." Do they learn these behaviours the instant they crawl away from their mothers? Think back to when a child first emerges from the womb. The first cries... Oh! how we yearn to hear that cry! We say with a collective sigh, "Good their crying"... cause it's "bad" at that point if their not! It means all is right with them- usually.

So, how is it that soon we come to hear that "same" cry as "bad." How can they be hungry again? I just changed them! O.K. so some of you may feel otherwise... but really this becomes a demand not always easily fixed. They want the comfort only you the parent can bring. Then, they grow more each year... and somehow become more "needy" and selfish!? They "need" more things that only the parent can give. They want you to work to provide things for their own pleasure... one year it's a bike, next a car!? But, I've been "good"... I "deserve" it!! Especially at Christmas time, right?

We are given the responsibility as parents... (whether you have one or 5 like us) to implant the "fruits of the Spirit" such as "goodness" into our children. As we know they certainly don't grow on their own. If we fail to properly nourish them with food for their physical bodies they will not thrive and mature properly. Thus, if we fail to properly implant the seeds of the "fruits of His Spirit" in their hearts, they will not thrive spiritually.

So fitting to be blogging on "goodness" on the 1st day of my kids summer break. Just this morning I heard the signs of "badness" emit from my living room... it's never "good" to hear fighting. Five kids, one living room, excitement of summer= bound to happen! I think, "Thank goodness their father is home." There's that word again... oh and of course I don't have to intervene.

What does it mean to tell our children, "Be good" rather than bad?! Do they really understand what is expected? Have we properly modeled the fruit that is expected? Have you ever caught yourself in a heated argument with said spouse or ? There's a knock at the door, or the phone rings. Suddenly, we turn ever so pleasant... then do we go back to arguing?! Do we teach our children this... (bicker, bicker) Now be "Good."

Why do we neglect to daily cultivate the "fruits" in our children? It is work, it takes patience to see the results! I personally have a goal to teach my own 5 Blessings as many of His fruits as possible this summer- 2 whole months. Then to continue even after. I want to send rich vibrant fruit back to 1st, 4th & 5th grades in Aug. I don't want rotten, spoiled, fruit coming from our home!

I am so overwhelmed and thankful my Lord exhibits all the fruits toward me... wretched sinner I am!! That I would exhibit that same brotherly Love toward others!
He rejoices over me... (Zeph. 3:17) That I would rejoice with others and not grow jealous!
He is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6) the Light in the darkness. (John 8:12) That I would shed the light of Peace in dark situations!
Patience. Oh! How the Lord is patient with me. That I would exhibit a portion of that patience with others and their short-comings! (Romans 12:12 & 2 Tim. 2:24)
He is the ultimate Act of Kindness! That I would strive to daily to look to see, where a small gesture of kindness can change an others day from "bad" to "Good!"
Thankfully our salvation is not based on "How Good" of a person we are. Let us remember to allow for each others faults... that no one... our children, our spouse, or others; would go away feeling there not good enough!
Remember, goodness is grace poured out!

In the end we all want to hear our Lord say, "Well done, good and faithful servant..." (Matt. 25:21)
Have a Good Day!!!

JKEST-Vicki!!!!!

Monday, May 24, 2010

"Marriage Matters" Monday #6: Love is not irritable

"He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city." (Proverbs 16:32)

Are you an easily irritated person?!
Def- irritable: easily irritated or annoyed; readily excited to impatience or anger (Testy, Touchy, and it implies cross or snappish behaviour)... I'm sure we have all been there one time or another; some more than others... (females that monthly cycle doesn't excuse us, just maybe hubby can be a little more understanding!?) One reason we may become irritable may be due to stress.

Stress can be brought on due to arguing, division, and bitterness, within our marital relationship or outside relationships. This can be due to fault finding or because someone was easily offended; yourself or others! How should we handle this?... (Col. 3:12-14) says, "Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other's faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony."
Stress can be brought on by constant worry or excessive anxiety. Combat your worry by turning it into worship; give your worry to the Lord in prayer! Our Heavenly Father says, "Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus." (Phil. 4:6-7)... The state of our heart can also determine our irritability... "For whatever is in your heart determines what you say." (Matt. 12:34b)

When you feel "squeezed" by life's pressures do you illicit a "sour" response like a lemon? Or do you handle pressures in a "keen" way like a "sweet" peach? Another reason to handle ourselves in a less irritable way... There is a direct connection between being constantly angry, competitive, and aggressive, and early heart disease... chronically angry, hostile and irritable people have been described as having "Type A" personalities. More laid back people are "Type B." When feeling especially easily provoked I have to think of... (Eph. 4:31) "Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behaviours." Lastly, being easily angered can indicate a sometimes hidden flaw of selfishness. Lust, bitterness, pride and greed are some reasons we can act harshly. Money, is many times a root cause of these "not so good fruits."

(1Tim. 6:9-10) says... "But people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish and harmful desires that plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows."

* This week: let Love Lead you to Forgiveness; instead of Forever holding a grudge. Be Grateful instead of greedy. Be Content rather than consuming. Fill your Heart with Happiness instead of hatred.
Invest in Relationships instead of; Investing in fighting with your Relatives. Prioritize your family; instead of promoting your work or own agenda. Will you choose Love in each decision you make? When you do you will be lowering your stress and releasing the venom that violates us inside. You are then able to set your heart up to respond to your spouse and others with patience and encouragement rather than anger and irritability.

*Love Dare* Choose to react in Love, instead of irritation... no matter what!! How long can you do this?! You may need to make changes or add margin to your schedule to take away possible irritations. List any possible wrong motives that you need to release from your life. Prayerfully give them to the Lord. Try to recall your motives behind overreacting... each time it occurs! Then, decide to react in love, next time.

Lovingly Yours,

JKEST-Vicki



Friday, May 21, 2010

"Fruit Filled" Friday #5: Kindness

Kindness is defined as; the act or state of being kind and marked by charitable behaviour, marked by mild disposition, pleasantness, tenderness and concern for others.

What is considered "an act of kindness?" Anything that's done for others (human or animal) without expecting to get anything in return. Even if the end result is mixed with feelings of anger or hatred from the "other" party. The "act" itself may be a "simple smile hello!"... on a grander scale it may mean giving up life as you've known it. This occurs when you allow "others" to live in your home. No matter the situation, we are all called to "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." This is known as the golden rule! But, notice the word kindness is never mentioned... kindness is suppose to be known; expected.

We are called to love and be kind to ALL... (Luke 6:35) says; "But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back." Constant kindness can accomplish much; As the sun causes ice to melt, Kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.
Kindness calls for forgiveness... (Eph. 4:32) states; "Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you." Forgiveness is the ultimate "act of kindness" that you give first to yourself, then to another person.

Kindness is gentle... "A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare" (Pro. 15:1) Before you respond in anger... take a moment to respond in kindness with a gentle soft word.
(Romans 12:9-10) says; "Don't just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection, (with brotherly love) and take delight in honoring each other." Emphasis of hate is on the "what" not the "Who"... no matter the wrong! Let us all be given the opportunity to learn from our mistakes.
The ultimate benefit of kindness is love... as it relates to one and all; refer to 1 Cor. 13:4-7.

Kindly Yours,
JKEST-Vicki

Monday, May 10, 2010

"Marriage Matters" #4 Love is not rude

LOVE
"It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." (1 Cor. 13:5)

Def- rude: discourteous or impolite, esp. in a deliberate way; rough in manners or behaviour; harsh or ungentle.
It seems that rude people are everywhere today: in the workplace, at the grocery store and sometimes they even lurk in our own home! It can be very difficult dealing with a rude person, on a daily basis; especially if you live with them in "close quarters." You can attempt to alter the rude behaviour in a not-so-rude way. Do not react negatively to their rude behaviour. Consider why their acting the way they do. Could it be ignorance!?

Def- ignorance: lack of knowledge, learning, info; they may not know or care to understand their own rude behaviour. You may have to "educate" them on what makes their behaviour rude! Do this gently and in a loving manner. They may be too self-centered to care.

Def- selfishness: devoted to caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one's own interests, benefits, welfare; regardless of others; (only selfish motives)
Self-sacrifice must replace selfishness. Sometimes one person in the marriage can do this reasonably well, but eventually patience runs out. Self-sacrifice is not natural; selfishness is! Selfishness is the enemy of the marriage relationship. The advancing of one's own personal interests opposes the cross of Christ and limits the power of God. Christ Himself did the ultimate act of selfless-ness when He willingly laid down His life for us. Are you unpleasant to live with!?

*Test yourself with these questions:
#1 How does your spouse feel about the way you speak and act around them?
#2 How does your behaviour affect your mate's sense of worth and self-esteem?
#3 Would your spouse say your a blessing, or that your condescending and embarrassing?
If your thinking that your spouse-not you-is the one who needs work in this area, your likely suffering from a bad case of ignorance, with a secondary condition of selfishness. Remember, love is not rude but lifts you to a higher standard.
Do you wish your spouse would quit doing the things that bother you? Then it's time to stop doing the things that bother them. Will you be thoughtful and loving? Or rude and unpleasant!

*Dare to be delightful*
#1 Guard & Practice the Golden Rule. Treat your mate the same way you want to be treated. Use (Luke 6:31) as a guide.
#2 Allow NO double standards. Be as considerate to your spouse as you are to strangers, coworkers, friends, even other "house mates."
#3 Honor requests. Make every possible attempt to follow through with previous requests. If you forgot or do not know what has been requested; Ask!

**Love Dare**
Let's get Honest! Ask your spouse to tell you at least 3 things this week that cause them to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. (try focusing on changing one a day) You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behaviour. This is from their perspective only. Think about what they point out... what needs your attention. Pray, and take it to God if you feel you can't handle it well, on your own. Create a plan to improve the areas pointed out! If you feel you need additional help or outside guidance seek it.

Seeking-HiM,
JKEST-Vicki

"Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife." (Pro. 25:24)



Friday, May 7, 2010

"Fruitfilled Friday" #4 Patience

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience... (Gal. 5:22)
"We who are strong ought to bear (patiently) with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves." (Romans 15:1)

Def. Patience: the quality of being patient, as the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation or the like; an ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay.
Opposite of Anger; closely associated with mercy
In our impatient, self-centered world, one quality of character has all but perished:longsuffering. Similiar to patience... It is not difficult to trace the source of biblical patience in God's children. 1 Cor. 13:4 states, "Love suffers long and is kind." Patience is directly associated with love and hope. A person who is longsuffering is not quick to retaliate or promptly punish someone who has insulted, offended, or harmed him.
Patience is a major characteristic of our God, longsuffering is one of 11 attributes of God; see (Ex. 34:6) Knowing this full well, should fill us with gratitude!
God relents from doing harm. His longsuffering is seen in His gracious restraint of His wrath towards those who deserve it. Despite the rebellious condition of the world, He waited patiently for 120 years while Noah built the ark and gathered the animals. see (Joel 2:13) read Noah's story beg. (GEN. ch.6)
God's patience delays His wrath, allowing time for good to occur. In combination with patience, the qualities of grace, mercy, lovingkindness, goodness, and truth allow God to work with people so they can remain alive and eventually transform into His image. If God struck out at people just as short-fused humans frequently do, no one would be alive today. Jonah, in a typically human reaction, wanted God to wipe the sinners of Ninevah, Israel's enemy, off the face of the earth! The entire book of Jonah; just 4 short ch. is full of God showing His patience!
"The Lord isn't really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent." (2 Peter 3:9 NLT) Christ's patient and enduring handling of sinners demonstrates His longsuffering. God promises that He will be long-tempered with us as we repent and dedicate ourselves to the obedience and service of God. As in everything else, Jesus Christ sets the standard of longsuffering.
*Bearing with others who are working out their salvation. Being slow to anger.*

"By standing firm (patiently) you will gain life." (Luke 21:19)

Patiently HIS!!
JKEST-Vicki

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

"Jesus Weigh" Wed. #4 Rainbow Way!

... and yet He did not leave Himself without witness, in that He did good and gave you rains from heaven and fruitful seasons, satisfying your heart with food and gladness. (Acts 14:17)

Subject of the day: beta-Carotene: is an organic compound and classified as a terpenoid. It is a strongly-colored red-Orange pigment abundant in plants & fruits. It is a form of Vitamin A.

U.S.D.A. lists top #5 sources of beta-Carotene as:
1. Carrot juice; many recipes on net, haven't tried any our self! V-8 Splash is pretty good though!
2. Pumpkin, canned; pie, bread,seeds; eat all in moderation!
3. Sweet potatoes, Baked
4. Spinach, frozen, cooked; we like adding it to lasagna, in with the ricotta; may be made vegetarian, or with meat! YuM!! I also make an Asparagus casserole with spinach added! Ask & the recipes shall be given to you! :) Don't want to waste valuable time; if nobody's interested!
5. Last, but not least, good ole fashion Carrots, cooked! Listen to your Mom's and eat your veggies! lol
Fruits include: Mangoes & Papaya
Hopefully, you will be able to add a few of these ideas to your diet plan.

Losing-IT-HIS WaY,
JKEST!!!!!

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

"Two Thoughts" Tuesday:#4 {Help vs. Hope}

Help says- I am in trouble; Hope says- I am "A very present help." (Psalm 46:1)

Help says- I am grieved; Hope says- I give relief from your grief... "This is my comfort in my affliction, For your word has given me life." (Psalm 71:21) Turn to "The Shepherd!" "Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me." (Psalm 23:4)

Help says- I have sinned; Hope says- "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." (Romans 3:23) Lay your burdens down... "For My yoke is easy and My burden is light." (Matt. 11:30)

Help says I am guilty, "For whoever shall keep the whole law, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all." (James 2:10) Hope gives- Grace, and lets you start over, again... "being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus." (Romans 3:24)

Help says- I am weak; Hope says- I am your strength... "Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities,in reproaches, in needs, in distresses, for Christ's sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong." (2 Cor. 12:10)... Lean on Him! "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding." (Prov. 3:5)

Help says- I am sick; Hope says- have Faith, "And the prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven." (James 5:15) Hope revives! "I am afflicted very much, Revive me, O Lord, according to your word." (Psalm 119:107)

Help says- I am poor; Hope says- "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." (Luke 12:15) also states; And He said to them, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses."
As the economy plummets; Help says, "What purpose does this serve? It says, "I can't help you- this time!" Hope says- the purpose is to relocate the roots of your; Joy in His Grace rather than in your "goods"... in His Mercy rather than in your money... in His worth rather than your wealth.

Our God of "Hope" also wants us to know... Nothing is impossible with Him. (Luke 1:37) That He who owns "the cattle on a thousand hills" (Ps. 50:10) is not limited by the economy. Don't put your Hopes on worldly prosperity, but on the One who owns it all. When all you have is Him, He is all you need! :)

Hoping-N-HIM,
JKEST - Vicki!!!!!

Monday, May 3, 2010

"Marriage Matters" Monday: Love is Thoughtfully, Helpful!

"How precious also are Your thoughts to me... How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand." (Psalm 139:17-18).... WoW!!! Did you know this is how much God thinks of us!! Imagine how much we could change our "world"... if only we all thought of each other a fraction of what God thinks of His children!

I want to focus on the word Helpful: The 1st part Help; is defined as- to give or provide what is necessary to accomplish a task or satisfy a need, contribute strength or means to; render Assistance to; cooperate effectively with... so much for a small word! No matter how "little" we help, it is Great in God's eyes. Synonyms for Help: encourage, befriend; support, uphold...
Antonyms: hinder, afflict, hindrance... Do you find yourself more on the "same" team with your mate; or the "opposite" side!?
I came up with an acronym for HELP:
Humbly
Enjoy
Laboring
Purposely
I think of this as a generic "Help"... to help all of man-kind, you help people as a "job."
It was God Himself who created and said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him." (Genesis 2:18)
Atlas, men and women were not created equally by God. He had a plan and a purpose for this. Take procreation for example... clearly our roles are defined; you end up with a child that has both your DNA... but their still their own person! What an example of the 3-1! God perfectly and clearly defined our roles... He Himself knew before you were formed what your "role" would be. He knew too, you would need a "helper" suitable just for You!! What a Thoughtful, Helpful God have We!!!
This brings me to the "ful" part... the Def- of Helpful: aid; assist, be useful, to serve;
Synonyms: useful, convenient
Antonyms: useless, inconvenient... again I ask are you useful and convenient toward your mate... or the opposite!? Now to finish the acronym:
For
Unconditional
Love
The "ful" in helpful should be directed toward our Beloved mates; first and foremost, always!

*Bonus* Find a family project needing attention and work on it together. Do whatever you can to operate as a "team" from beginning to completion. Purpose to encourage each other along the way!
"Love Dare:" Start a "new" daily habit of asking your spouse "How they are doing;" and if there is anything you could do for them. If your spouse works "outside" the home call them at work; if possible! Make this a more natural,routine, and genuinely helpful part of your lifestyle.

Helpfully Yours,
JKEST-Vicki!!!!!

"Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor." Ecclesiastes 4:9









Friday, April 30, 2010

"Fruitfilled Friday" #3 Peace

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace... (Gal. 5:22)

Know Jesus... Know Peace
We've all heard... Love not Hate!... Peace not War! Are those just sayings; or is Peace possible? There never will be "World Peace"... until our Saviour comes again. But, why not be "the Peace" in your inner circle?!
It takes 2 to have a war... One act of "love" can end it... " Hatred stirs up strife, But love covers all sins." (Proverbs 10:12) We can all think of someone we need to "mend the fence" with. Imagine, there's this HUGE fence you've built between you. Some have done more of the "building" than others! The "fence" has been damaged; but not beyond repair... you can each begin to "mend" your side. In the beginning the "other" side won't even know your working on it! It all begins in your own heart. Forgiving the "damaging hurt" is the hardest part of all! But, then you can begin the mending. You may end up doing much of the mending yourself! Keep on going!
Today happens to be "National Honesty Day". Keeping with the day; be Honest about your true hatred! Don't just try to cover it up. "Whoever hides hatred has lying lips, And whoever spreads slander is a fool." ( Prov. 10:18) As you finish mending the fence you will see the other person; hopefully, in a new light. Even if they refuse to accept your offering of Peace; you will have a Peace within yourself. So, no matter what! You will have conquered and WON the War!! "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger,clamor,and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice." (Ephesians 4:31) Maybe, just maybe... we can all bring a little Peace to this hate filled world... tell HE comes, again!!

In HIS Peace,
JKEST- Vicki

No Jesus... No Peace!!!

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Jesus Weigh #3: Rainbow Way

God said, "I have given you every plant with seeds on the face of the earth and every tree that has fruit with seeds. This will be your food. (Genesis 1:29) Foundation of a Healthy Diet

Lycopene- a bright RED carotene; an antioxidant & (possible) cancer preventative
*found in Tomatoes, (sauces); watermelon & papaya

MiNi Meal Sug.: Mini Whole Wheat Bagel + Laughing Cow Cheese lt. + *Tomatoe = 150 cal
110 cal.; 3 fib.; 5 pro. 35 cal.; 3 pro min. cal.
Try adding your choice lean lunchmeat...
Great Way to start Day!!

Try pairing Apple slices + Peanut Butter = 200 cal.
100 cal. 1 TB. 100 cal
4 fib. 1 fib. 4 pro.
Personally, I try to consume on average 1,600 calories = 100 calories per 1 hour awake
400 cal. meals/ 100-200 cal. snacks
Always try to include: Healthy Fiber & Protein 2-gether

Continue increasing strength, endurance, and duration through Exercise!!

Decreasing-4-HIM!!!
JKEST Rich!!!!!

He must increase, but I must decrease. (John 3:30)

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

"Two Thoughts" Tuesday: AUTISM



As April comes to an end... most will forget about the "Awarenesses" that are given exposure during the month of April. Our "Awareness" will still continue, moment by moment. I'd like to use my "Two Thoughts" today to explain... What God Thought When He Created our Boy, and others like him!!



A wesome

U niquely

T alented

I ndividual

S pecially

M ade-N-HIS Image


He Cares!! Jesus Understands!!


Everyone who is called by MY name, whom I have created for My glory, I have formed him, yes, I have made him. Isaiah 43:7


Praying your fully "aware" of the Love God has for YOU!!!

JKEST-Vicki!!!!!

Monday, April 26, 2010

"Marriage Matters" Monday #3: Love is not selfish

Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor. (Romans 12:10)

I recently read an article telling about a Disney Cruise. The writer, her 3-year daughter, oh! and her husband went on. It seemed the "cruise" was pretty much about the "girl." I'm sure "Mom" got "paid" to write the article....
Well, it reminded me of the one and only cruise my Beloved and I took. Similiar stops... The main difference was the "Characters." Allow me to take you on a short meander on a "typical" cruise.
Upon stepping aboard you are "greeted," possibly by cheers or applause... Every morning the captain will greet you if you care to "listen," (over intercom); you may opt to turn it off. You will be served like Royalty, (almost). You will want to read your itenirary daily; to know the direction the ship is heading that day. You will want to know when to embark from the ship. There will be "treasured" places to explore; and once in lifetime experiences to be had! Some may wish to try their luck at the casino. You will enjoy great banquet feasts at dinner. The views will be stunningly breathtaking... Then, it will be over!! I'd like to tell you about a different cruise...
There too are "many" different "characters." You will be Heralded upon receiving your "passport." The captain will personally greet you, as often as you like... he's never too busy! It's also a good idea to check your itenirary daily; to see where your going. There are many yet unseen "treasures," waiting for you to find. The "dealer" will tell you, "your debt has been paid in full," if you ask. There is a Banquet Feast awaiting you!
This ship is called Life! Were all welcome on board- headed to the same destination. "Our captain," Jesus Christ! Some will never make it... they've fallen overboard and refuse to accept the "Life Saviour." Others may feel they still have time... and never get on board. We all have a Passport with our name on it... we just have to accept it! Destination Heaven... R-U- on Board?!

*Bonus* Tips for a "Smooth cruise"
#1. Listen to the "Captain"... The Lord will guide you continually...(Isaiah 58:11) He loves to be greeted daily. "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God." (Philippians 4:6)
#2 Look to your "itenirary" often. "The Word" serves as a "map" to guide us on our quest for "hidden treasures." "Your word is a lamp to my feet; And a light to my path." (Psalm 119:105)

*Love Dare* Love your fellow ship (mates)...
"rather, serve one another in love" (Galations 5:13) On this cruise "we" are the "servants". Servants are NOT selfish. Imagine how smooth our life would be if we served each other like Royalty!? Treat your "Best Mate" to a mini cruise... your the ship staff. "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself." (Philippians 2:3)
*Greet your Mate Lovingly. Make their Fave meal... without complaining about the clean-up, after! Get the house as "ship-shape" clean as possible! (This one will take the most prayer for me!) Phil. 4:13... Take an "excursian" together... personally our budget is $00... some of you may have more to spend. Be creative and do what's within your budget! Most importantly "Be Self-less... for as long as possible!!

Serving HIM!!
JKEST Vicki

Friday, April 23, 2010

Fruitful Friday #2: JOY!






My brethren, count it all JOY when you fall into various trials. (James 1:2) Joy! such a tiny word; but the with the power to turn even the saddest frown around! Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning. (Psalm 30:5) In this world trials, are guaranteed. How we react to the trials is our choice. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength. (Nehemiah 8:10) So, how we react to sorrow (loss) depends on whom we get our strength from! (Psalm 81:1) says: Sing aloud to God our strength; Make a joyful shout to the God of Jacob. What does it take to bring us to the point of JOY! Do we allow our circumstances to determine our joy?! Do we depend on others to be our source of joy? I like to think of JOY as... 1st beginning with Jesus. Without Him you will never find True lasting Joy. All things began with Him... and are created by Him.


JOY is others centered. Speaking in these terms I'd like to add a 2nd word. I'm sure most, if not all of us have said, "This is MY Pride & Joy!" Do we realize what we are saying?! Def.- Joy: pleasure; be glad. Pride literally means- conceit,self-esteem, egotism, vanity, vain glory. Pride clearly focuses on Itself. The opposite of Pride: Humility, which means- lowliness, meekness, submissiveness. ( Proverbs 16:18) states- Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall. When we fall how do we get back up?! (James 4:10) says... Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up. Humbly look to Jesus; push Pride aside and bring Joy to the "Others in your life." This should be the beginning of Lasting JOY for Yourself. Keep in mind, prIde serves Itself; JOy serves Jesus 1st, followed by Others;
before yourself! Enjoy this song from Cheri Keaggy..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ptcspX7oNRM&feature=PlayList&p=C8BC43D0B8ED3F60&playnext_from=PL&playnext=1&index=9

Serving HIM-N-JOY JKEST!!!!!
Vicki